Self-love doesn't have to be a fight.

Recently I had a powerful conversation with a client , the kind that reminds me why I created Self Love Legacy in the first place.
 

She's in a relationship where her needs aren't being met. For the first time in her life, she's ready to stand up for herself and walk away if nothing changes.
 

When we got on the call, her body was tight with pain - her nervous system locked in fight mode.
 

But as we dropped in…

We honoured the journey she's shared with this partner.

We felt into his energy - not to excuse him, but to understand what he might be holding.

We tuned into the bigger picture - the soul lessons, the timelines, the higher path.
 

And something shifted.
 

Her heart softened.
 

Not into passivity, but into truthful love.
 

The kind of love that allows you to say:

I deserve more.
And I still love you.
And I can walk away with an open heart.
 

It hit her deeply - because everything she'd been told by her friends, her feed, and the echo chamber of angry feminism was saying:
 

“F*ck him. He doesn't deserve you anyway.”
“Cut him off. Walk away. Don't look back.”
 

But that energy wasn't helping her heal.
 

I know that space.

I was an angry feminist once.

I had every reason to be.

I'd been betrayed, abandoned, and hurt by men again and again since I was in the womb.
 

But rage wasn't working for me.

It wasn't giving me peace.

It wasn't helping me open my heart or magnetize the love I craved, in fact it was repelling love.

So no, I'm not the kind of Self Love coach who'll teach you to burn bridges or harden your heart.

I'm the kind who'll teach you to lay down your sword - not because you're weak - but because your strength is so rooted in your softness.
 

Because real self-love isn't about control, detachment, or domination.

It's a spiritual practice.

One rooted in compassion.

One guided by the archetypes of Mary Magdalene, of Kuan Yin - and yes, by the wisdom of your pussy too!!!
 

Self Love Legacy is about remembering that kind of love.

The kind that melts your armour.

That shows you how to trust your own devotion.

That brings clarity without cruelty, boundaries without shutdown, and pleasure as sacred.
 

So if you want to:

💗 Reclaim your heart as a powerful compass

🌹 Let go of old wounds and rewrite your worth from the inside out

🧚‍♀️ Cultivate love that's both fierce and tender — in your body, your relationships, your life
 

Then it's time.
 

Lay down your sword.

And join me.
 

Self Love Legacy begins next Thursday. (And we have our first bonus call TONIGHT!)

This is your invitation to devote to the real work of loving yourself - not just in thought, but in action, embodiment, community, and soul.
 

Come home to a new way.
 

With love,
Chloe
xx

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