Things in my personal and professional life are about to radically shift.

Anyone who has been to Bali will remember the devotional relationship the Balinese have with prayers and offerings.

Right now as I write this it is a warm winter Melbourne morning, I am up and working after a meditation, yoga and dance practice. Many Melbourners will have been doing their own morning routines, and many more will be at work.

Are you burnt out or…

Are you suffocating your feminine?

Feminine AKA Yin Energy

The truth is, I don't think there has been a moment from childhood to adulthood where I didn't believe in fairies.
And as for witches, I used to dress up as a fairy witch for Halloween every year. Practical magic was one of my all time favourite movies.

Alright I'm gonna get real... Arriving in the enchanting lands of Bali has not been the smooth, glamorous adventure many expect. I was recently chatting with a client about the often-glorified image of overseas trips. We tend to imagine exotic destinations as magical escapes from our everyday troubles. But the truth is, you can't outrun your problems; they follow you wherever you go.

Did you know that you have a wealth of wisdom inside yourself?

It's true. We have many centres of intelligence inside of ourselves, but today I'm going to focus on three.

Your head - your heart & your pussy.

On Friday the 21st of June we celebrated Australia's Winter Solstice

On Saturday the 22nd of June we watched the full moon rise.

And on Sunday the 23rd I turned 32.

For the last four years I have had the privilege of bleeding in the comfort of my home.

I've had a light period for years meaning I happily and easily freebleed at home.

I spend most of the day laying down, often making a daybed in the sun with my journal, book and endless pots of tea.

It's my birthday today, and I want to tell you a story.
One morning, years ago, I woke up in Lisbon, Portugal, distraught and ready to make the biggest change of my life.

How are you enjoying the party? I asked the classically gorgeous gay man as I entered the main bar of my first Queer Sauna, wearing my knee high leather boots, pink knickers and metal hearts bra. 
Great! I just went down on a woman and she said it was the best head of her life! The gorgeous man replied. 

I really didn't want to tell you this…
I have been finding it extremely difficult to make the time, space, and energy for my own self pleasure.

Self pleasure is natural and safe.
For all too many women / female bodies, pleasure has not been safe.
Whether your pleasure was omitted from all conversations growing up, leaving you to assume: “If it isn't spoken about it must be wrong.”

In 2018 I was in the shower with my lover letting him take me roughly from behind when suddenly everything changed.
My knees buckled from underneath me and as I sunk to the shower floor sobbing uncontrollably, I realised that I could also hear my pussy crying.

And so, yesterday afternoon when I found myself alone for the first time in days, I turned on the heater, popped a hot water-bottle over my womb, and began to indulge in my addictive novel.

How long do you spend giving pleasure to your body before you touch your clit when you're masturbating?
Did you know the female body takes around 40 minutes to fully engorge…

I loved pleasure - but my lack of education about it mean I believed it came from sources outside of myself.

From shower heads, jets, from a mans finger or tongue and eventually from sex.

As I hone in on these stories, chipping away at them like marble, carefully carving out new stories, I have felt things in my external world start to shift…

I do this because bringing sisters / siblings together genuinely fills up my soul.

So I let go of my ego's need to sell out and found that I was excited to have a more intimate event - a different kind of medicine.

Yesterday as I drove away from Confest I had the polarising experience of deep joy and simultaneous grief.

From teaching magic and teaching someone how to have an orgasm…
You see, facilitation is an embodied and psychological craft.