On Sunday as I pulled up at my father's house I had tears streaming down my face.

I had been listening to Layla Martins podcast with Alison Armstrong called “How to bring out the best in men”

It compelled me to share what my father's day was like for me.

I first heard about Layla Martin in a ‘Wild Woman Workshop’ at Livelinge festival in The Netherlands 2018.The workshop had spoken to every part of me. It covered sisterhood, vulberability, empowerment, sexuality and unleashing the inner wild within us.

You don’t owe your body. You own your body.

I, like many female bodied people, have a coding that has lived in my body, in my pussy.

Mothers and Dildos

Not a combination you hear every day, nor one that many want to hear.

Yet, this weekend I spent my Saturday with my Mum, selling dildos at St Andrews Market, Melbourne.

Believe it or not, I used to hate getting in front of a camera…

Love is not a commodity for the worthy and partnered.
Love is for all.

“Liberation of this level is dangerous.”

It's been 18 days since my Instagram, Facebook and messenger accounts were deactivated without warning.

Dear community, I have been erased off all social media. Here’s how to support me…

The time I got to explore a kink club, get spanked & learn about the durability of testicles!

I met him on tinder, he was my type back then, a backpacker, unclean, a sexy accent, and he lived around the corner. There was no courtship. I was used to that. I went straight to his house, we talked, he rolled a joint, we smoked, and then it was go time.

From lived experience, I could give you about a thousand reasons as to how self pleasure will change you in ways seen and unseen, but let me expand on why it is so important to continue doing in relationship, and why this is not talked about enough!

Can you self pleasure while you are menstruating? Does your libido come and go in waves without warning?

What does astrology tell us about our approach to pleasure, desires, sex & sexuality? How can astrology guide us to embody the most magnetic version of our authentic expression & the yummiest flavour of sexual exploration?

I see you babe. I see your disconnection, you’re shut down, your withdrawal. I know pleasure can feel like a distant memory. Like a frustrating, unachievable pressure. Like something that isn’t for you. But that isn’t true. Your pleasure still exists.

I journeyed 17 thousand kilometres to come home in time, to present at the renowned festival, Seven Sisters.